I’m very proud to announce the arrival of a new member of our family: Baby Grace! No, I didn’t go into labour 18 weeks early: my brother and his fiancee had their first child: Grace Ellen.
My mom and I headed down to Toronto to visit Grace and her parents overnight.
Although my son is only 18 months old, it’s amazing how quickly you forget about all the work that’s involved with a newborn. My brother compared it to starting a new job when you have no idea what you’re doing. And that new job is in Germany.
So, so true.
The long nights and little sleep make you mildly crazy all while trying to heal from the birth and learning all about your baby’s needs, cries and poops. So. much. poop.
Meeting Grace reminded me of what I learned about working with my husband to ensure the baby’s – and our! – survival.
Working as a team with your partner is crucial to survival, and here are some things I do remember from those insane newborn days:
1. Spell each other off for naps. There’s no sense in both of you being awake.
2. Keep talking to one another.
3. Don’t play the sleep comparison game. No one wins.
4. Don’t ignore your partner’s suggestions. You’re both the parents, so each opinion is just as important as the other’s.
5. It takes about 6-8 weeks before you finally feel like you’ve gotten into a pattern. Hang in there.
What are some tips you’d give to new parents?